So, you know how I like to do memes but I like to change them up because rules and I don’t actually get along so well? (How I am not in prison for eternity is beyond me, honestly.)
I’m stealing Tug’s meme, except I’m also stealing her answers and then just commenting about them, but on my blog in a post instead of in her comments where comments belong. Yup. So, without the furtherness of ado…
Tug: I totally think men on motorcycles are HOT, but will never.ever sit my ass on one again as long as I live. (the motorcycle, not necessarily the man) ;-)
Poppy: I was offered to ride a motorcycle when I was seven. I was terrified of the idea so I declined. Also, when I told my brother I am dating a man from NYC my brother asked me if he was a biker (as in, Harley). Because, ya know, all guys from The City are bikers! (hehehehehehehehe)
Tug: I don’t believe my mom when she tells me she’s proud of me, but I do believe my dad. I hope my daughter believes me when I tell her.
Poppy: I am the opposite. My dad rarely praises me, but when he does I don’t feel sincerity behind it. When my mom praises me it’s usually with that choked up voice I get when I’m really proud of someone, so I know she means it.
Tug: While I’m very confident and well-spoken with anyone - no matter their position in life - each & every day - I still have to really talk to myself & convince myself not to cry or scream when I’m REALLY mad - because if I’ve gotten that mad? I’ve held it in, and that’s not good.
Poppy: I actually used to have this problem, but back before blogging. I
blogging, it’s really helped even out my moods because I don’t have to keep everything pent up. I know that I could just talk things out (as in, omg, verbally!!!!), but I have a very hard time not just completely clamming up when things are bothering me. I’m an internalizer.
Tug: One of the best times my daughter & I have had was a trip from Vegas to MT in a car that crawled up hills (think semis & motor homes passing you & stopping every 100 miles or so to add oil), but flew down them! We totally bonded (her jr. high years), and just had a blast doing what we wanted, stopping where we wanted, and cranking the tunes, singing along, and laughing.
Poppy: I submit exhibits A, B, C, and D.
A: Bdogg

B: Dawg
Tug: I have never in my life been anorexic, but I can look at a woman with my body type & think she looks good - but I don’t think I do. In the same breath I can say I’m lucky to have 1 or 2 good hair days a year, and I don’t really care. This is me, take it or leave it. ;-)
Poppy: I’ve been bulimic and anorexic. I was much more successful with the bulimia part since I love to eat so much. I’m still bad about food, but it’s not because I have control issues. I’m just lazy about incorporating healthy eating into my life. Send me on vacation and I eat breakfast, lunch, and steak dinner. Otherwise I kinda just suck at squaring away those meals. I think women with my body type are beautiful and, not to be conceited or anything, I think I’m beautiful. It took me a long time in life to think that, but I’m there.
Tug: I’m quite the cunning commentor, but a pretty pathetic poster in the blog world, but I’m glad I’m here (and again, take it or leave it) - I’ve ‘met’ some pretty awesome people!
Poppy: Tug is not a pathetic poster. That’s just redonk. However, I totally agree that I’ve met some pretty awesome people in the blog world! (If I said I hadn’t then my best friend and my boyfriend would probably be kinda pissed at me, maybe a little.
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Thanks, Tugbug. That was fun!





You ARE beautiful. ;-) I love myself, it’s just the muffin top that pisses me off…heh. And I can’t get my aggressions out on my blog, ’cause really the only real bad shit I have in life is work related. I don’t want to be Fabbed/Karled/Dooced.
LOVE your take on the meme - another awesome Poppymoment!
“C:Mom” really needs to eat. I mean, she’s just bones. And what’s with the toothy overbite ?
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What do you mean, “foreground” ?
Tug, I loooooove my muffin top. In fact, my avatar over at WWTDD is the muffin top photo from Facebook’s “you’re fat so you suck” ads.
Creature, my mom is very sensitive about her skeletal overbite, you be nice.
See? That’s where I can look at a woman with my body type & think she looks good comes in.
Then embrace your muffin top. I like to grab onto mine and squish it a bit while I giggle.
(I know, I’m
weirdquirky.)That was a really great meme! You know, it took me a long time to love the way I look, and as I get older, it seems to get easier. My co-workers are constantly bagging on their bodies, and one day I had to just tell them to stop, because if you keep saying negative things about yourself, you wind up believing them. And that’s not good.
(I think I told you this already?)
I love that pic of us, too. Definitely in the top 5 of the best times of my life. We need to do it again sometime.
P.S. - I wore my RAWR shirt yesterday!
Awesome post!
You are also cute.
I love that you said you’re beautiful. That is so hard for most women to do.
(Me included. But then, I don’t think “beautiful” is a word that fits me. I’m “cute” - which is different.)
Dinosaur skeleton! Lego Star Wars people! My heart is warmed.
Nice spin on the meme. And I love that pic of you & B!